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To understand how to deal with "difficult people", we first need to understand the nature of reality. I will explain in short here:
1. Each of us lives in our own reality/hologram, even though it looks like we are all together as equal participants. We are not equal participants.
2. Each of us is the only Operant Power in our own reality. If I compare life to a fiction book, then each of us is the ONLY author of our own individual books (called our reality/life/universe).
3. Everyone in our individual reality is "ourselves pushed out". This simply means that everyone else in our individual reality is a character from our own fiction book. They seem to have free-will but they don't. God gives each person complete dominion over their own realities. So how others behave, or...
And is that person not with you? They broke up with you, but you still love them and want them back. Or they live somewhere far away and they think this won't work. Or they don't know you love them. Or they have friend-zoned you. Or...they might not even know you exist!
AND...some well-meaning Law of Attraction coaches are making you feel guilty about wanting a specific person and keep telling you things like - you cannot manifest any specific person, it is against their free will, you should "let the Universe pick the right person for you", etc. Or they might be treating you condescendingly for "wanting your ex back".
In their defense, this is what I will say - they DO mean well, but fortunately for you, they are wrong.
You absolutely CAN manifest the one you desire.
Free-will is one of the most misunderstood concepts. To understand this, I will explain a little bit about how reality...
You are the only author of your book that you call Life.
You are the only Director, Producer, and screenwriter of the movie you call Life.
You are the BOSS of your life.
And you will realize this the more you practice watching your thoughts in the way I will explain below. Don't just take my word. Experiment long enough, and test it for yourself.
Your Subconscious mind was given the power of creating your reality.
And your Conscious mind was given the power of intellect, reasoning, differentiating between the good and the bad, right and wrong.
Your Conscious Mind is the guide or the programmer. Your subconscious mind is the main computer that does all the work that you program it to do.
We do not realize that we are creating every experience in our lives, and we think that life just happens to us and that we...
We go to bed and then worry about everything we can remember. Or we have mental conversations with people where we are arguing with them and “putting them in place”. Or we imagine the worst possible things.
And the next day we wake up to live the same life we have been living, one that gives us enough things to worry about.
One of the biggest reasons is what I mentioned above.
That is the time when our subconscious mind is most accessible to programming. It is our subconscious mind that creates our lives. Our conscious mind fills the subconscious with information, and the subconscious mind creates accordingly.
The subconscious does not judge. It will not stop to wonder if this will cause you happiness or sadness. It follows the instructions that the conscious mind gives it.